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Originally Posted by FireFly

Wow. Someone seems to be a wee pinch bitter. I would beg to disagree. As another female who agrees with Mango, I've actually been dating strictly 'nice guys' for the past year. Some I've gone out with again, some I haven't, but in no case did I decide not to see them again due to them being too nice. There has to also be the elusive chemistry... Nice guys also have to be sexy too, sometimes demanding, not a pushover. There's a difference between being a nice guy who is not a pushover and being an *******. Hey, I like dick as much as the next lady, but you don't have to BE one.

Ha-ha perhaps I am a bit bitter, I have played the nice guy card for far too long and it’s got me no where, I think it mostly relates to my age group I am only 20 so for the most part I date girls my age and that is what they want, Perhaps dick is a the wrong word but there is a reason why “nice guys finish last” trust me most girl I talk to my age agree, as much as they say they want the nice guy. The always find themselves being attracted to the jerks perhaps you are the exception to the rule Mrs. FireFly if so than I wish every girl was like you us nice guys would no longer be in last