Lots of good advice so far. Marriage counselling is too often used as a last resort after it is too late. Trying to fix huge issues with marriage counselling is almost like throwing a last second Hail Mary pass to the end zone. It’s worth a shot, you feel like you gotta try....but it’s probably not going to work.
Me and my ex did do marriage counselling but looking back it was already over. Both parties must be 100% invested and committed for it to work. All too often I’ve partner is really committed to try to work through it and the other partner is moved on and is just doing the counselling to say “ at least I tried”.
In retrospect I wish I would of went straight to individual counselling and not wasted my time and money on marriage counselling. Your situation is different so all I could say is good luck.
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