Therapy didn’t work for me and my ex. In retrospect, I would definitely prefer to have kept the $3000-$4000 I spent on it. Having said that, it depends where you two are in terms of your relationship problems. If it’s just small-ish things that are just starting, maybe you have a chance. Major trust issues couldn’t be fixed in my case at least. There is also a chance that the other person is just going through the therapy exercise to buy themselves time and gather courage to leave.
Gottman method therapy is based on research, so I would recommend therapists that work in that area. Good luck!
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