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Originally Posted by Teh_Bandwagoner
I can't believe I read this entire thread. Where's my gold star??
Put me in the "her existing boyfriend isn't working out camp". Dude, if the girl studdered, you're so making her think twice!
I think your plan is appropriate. Stay the course, man!
By the way, is it just me, or does it seem that more often than not, girls give you fairly iffy answers when you ask them out. Last girl I asked out, she told me she broke up with her boyfriend recently and wasn't ready to date yet. If she had brushed me off from that point, I think I would have been glad. But no... she has to keep me within arms reach! I'm wondering if she's keeping me around as a backup for when she is ready. It's not keeping me from being interested in other girls, but is it wrong of me to be upset that she might be keeping me aside for a future option? :P
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I think that depends on what you want from her. If you are looking just to sleep with her, nothing wrong with keeping her around at arms length for that. As long as you are exploring your options as well. Just dont put much effort into her.
However if you hoping to possibly slide in and date her, from the sounds of it, that may be tough to do. If a woman is truly interested in you, she would not tell you she was not ready to date at all. She my have interest in you, but not that much, hence her hesitation. Let me ask you all this, if there was a girl you met whom was truly amazing and you were interested in her, would you tell her your not ready to date? Prob not.
For the most part, if a woman is interested in you, someway she will make it known or easy for you to like her. Her stating she is not ready to date is a barrier or definitely a sign of low interest.