[jayswin]

The bulk of your post is something that someone not suffering a mental illness could attack, but although you're bang on with what needs to be addressed, the caveat goes back to my point that if someone is suffering an undiagnosed (or diagnosed but not properly treated) mental illness then the right program is key.

And this is where my original point stands, that if you can steer your son towards Calgary South Health Campus you'll be in really great hands (I was one community out of their zone but strongly asked for it and got in there).