My thoughts, if you like her and she is showing interest, go for it. Her supposed boyfriend has nothing to do with you and her. If it works out great. Unless you know her boyfriend(good friend), who cares.
One other thing though, depends on what you want from her. If you want just a friend with benefits, then play along with the game, just remain in her life in some capacity. If there is interest, one day you will or may be able to take it to the physical level.
Either way, do not just focus your time on her. Date other women and if she has a man and you are friends with her, be sure she knows there are other women too. Subtle hints that you are intrigued by another woman is always a good way to raise interest from someone else. Dont divulge much information on other ones your dating though. Be discreet and subtle.
Be relaxed, confident and not touchy feely with her under any circumstances. Ensure that you have the type of personality that is not a pushover, but do not cater to her or be the nice guy. Dont be an ass, but certainly, do not be a wuss.
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