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Originally Posted by Matata
I might my SO with online dating and the best tips I got are:
1. Profile pic: do not smile, do not look at the camera, keep your shirt on. That stuff creeps women out. The best pic is to make it seem like someone caught you unaware while you're climbing a mountain or something.
2. There's almost no point in making first contact. Every girl gets like 100 messages a day. Just make a solid profile and let them make first contact. It's a slow burn (1-3 girls/month is a good month) but nearly all the success I had started with the girl reaching out first.
3. Hook up culture will erode your soul makes settling down more difficult. It's best to be avoided.
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I don't agree with #2. There are lots of very good looking women who don't get approached. The overall investment in sending out a message you don't get a reply to is very low. Just don't send out a generic message. Send out something that actually shows interest in the other person's profile.