Honestly from my own similar experience and from talking to female friends, there is no proven formula. Some women want to text instantly many times a day and will lose attention if you don't text immediately. Other women find it clingy. At the end of the day, as long as you yourself are not being overly aloof, a truly interested woman will want to pursue the relationship with you. However you really have to read the room.
In the modern age most single people, who are dating, are probably dating multiple people at once. Don't expect any loyalty or monogamy until that's been firmly established. You will get ghosted as women persue other options.
I actually had three women that had ghosted me get in touch with me 6 months to a year after the ghosting, but by then I was already in a new relationship.
So to sum it up, it might be just them. People, of both genders, will ghost. Most people don't feel the need for a formal breakup after a few casual dates, or they may want to keep the possibility open for later.
All you can do is just try to read the woman as best as possible. Or maybe just do your own thing until you find someone that's cool with whatever you're doing.
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