we live in an era when almost everyone who is dating is being presented with a smorgasboard of possible partners all the time therefore you can assume the girl you have seen a few times has also had 2 or 3 other guys she's considering, sometimes you come out on top sometimes you don't and it seems it is not required to be polite and explain this when you are the loser, when you get ghosted have a stock last text to send, 'haven't heard from you for a couple of days, I assume my chiseled good looks are not to your liking, thanks for the drink/meal/movie/time' humour is always good, then move on, doesn't matter how wonderful or sympatico it seemed to be, the worst thing you can do is get needy/stalky, neither women nor men like that, maybe she changes her mind if the guy she thought was better turns out to be a ######, maybe she doesn't.
Nothing you can do about it other than accept ghosting is todays equivalent of 'it's not you it's me' and move on.
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