Yeah calling is no bueno these days. If someone calls me I immediately assume it’s an emergency.
Sometimes if you’re being ghosted it’s because she finds your texts boring. And that’s not a chirp it’s something that has to be fought against and it can happen to everyone. There’s a ton of guys texting her “how are you” “how was your day” “what are you up to” or the
dreaded scummiest text if them all “hey”. You have to stand out against those no imagination lazy losers. Send her a meme, a picture of a cute animal that you can link to her (hopefully you know something about her at this point), a statement text about you being out and doing something exciting, or a random text that’s good natured and fun/funny that will hopefully get a response. You’re going for fun, funny, active, interesting, and unique with this. Stay away from straight up question texts to her, they’re easy to come up with which is why they get used a lot but they’re boring as #### and as mentioned, she has tons of loser guys texting her lazy questions all the time. You’re different, you’re better. Sometimes there’s nothing you can do, ghosting is a proxy of breaking up for people not mature enough to just say they’re not interested, but it’s amazing how often it can be turned around.
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