Texting is just like any other form of communication really, and if a girl is interested in you she’ll be blowing up your phone. And like any other form of communication, it’s easy for a man to come on way too strong and scare girls off, which might be what’s happening.
I would always do the “text test” — after the first date, do texting for a day or two, the. On day three, don’t text her first. Let her make the move. If she doesn’t bother to message you at all, she’s probably not that interested (my wife made it to like 7:45am that day before I heard from her lol).
Granted we were much younger back then and got married in our early 20’s, so I have no idea if the dynamic has changed a lot since then or what dating is like in your 30’s. But, something to try.
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