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Does the ghosting happen after anything specific? Like, you suggest seeing each other in person and that's when she disappears? Or is it the opposite where you keep texting and never actually ask her out? Presumably, she gave you the number so you could ask her out. If you never do, she might think she's wasting her time.



Being under 40 and having no online/social media presence can be a red flag itself for some people. She might start asking herself questions about you. Are you trying to hide something? Are you trying to hide from someone? Do you have a secret family? Is the mother of your child hunting you down for child support? Is the law after you?

It might be worth it to just have a Facebook page you never update but has a few friends (with real people), so that you "exist" online. A LinkedIn profile can be pretty unobtrusive. Just fill it out and never think about it again, connect with a few present and former co-workers and you're good to go.

Also, from the online presence perspective, have you tried searching yourself on Google? Do it with all your cookies cleared and not signed into Chrome or anything (heck, do it in a browser you don't normally use and make sure you clear the cache and cookies first). Maybe they're checking up on you and finding something they don't like -- or maybe they're finding nothing, which can be just as bad.