Wookie, man... just go for it. The worst that happens is that she says 'no'. I think there's worse things in the world than getting rejected. Trust me, I've been rejected more times than not when asking out a complete stranger, but in the end, that's all they are... a stranger.
Also, the key that I've found is to talk to her, but not in a an obvious 'I like you' sort of manner. Chat it up a bit, then give her a wink and a smile after a conversation.
At some point when you talk to her, look her in the eyes ONCE, maybe TWICE, for a prolonged period of time. Trust me, this works. This signifies to the lady that you've got courage and interest in her, and that you're atleast somewhat of a gentleman. I'm not sure why this works for me, but it does. Women like to be put on a pedestal; courteously showing interest in them by fixating on their eyes, but then ending the conversation and moving on leave something for their imagination to ponder is a great tactic.
I've also always found that if you show disinterest in a girl, yet leave something to the imagination, it drives girls crazy. They want what they can't have. The classic scenario of 'playing hard to get'. Of course, this has also prevented me from hooking up with / retaining the two girls I've truly ever really liked, so take this advice with caution. It's a high risk, high reward type of gamble.
Or, you could just come down here to Kiwiland; it's frickin' easy to meet a girl down here, especially with a Canadian accent. It's like a magnet, and the girls down here, for the most part, are VERY attractive. Trust me.
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