[TheyCallMeBruce]

After commenting on the "beelzabub" thing, I haven't read through any of the comments. So I'll give my advice, which probably might not help lol.

I normally just ask if a girl would like to go "hang out" sometime. Something like coffee or lunch. If you already know her and can chat with her, it's easy. Just chat about something you two have in common, and then ask if she'd like to hang out for coffee sometime.

Best thing to do is to ask her out for coffee. This is a very good thing because it is more informal, casual if you will. Asking her out for coffee also allows for you two to just talk. You can't do this if you take her to the movies or the Flames game. I would reserve movies/game for second or third dates. When you're talking with her at the coffee shop, this allows you to get to know her. It also helps for second or third dates, since on your first date you would have gotten to know the things she likes and dislikes.

Just remember to be confident, funny, and just a little bit flirty (remember, just a bit!). It's not a mistake those 3 things are written in that order.

Remember, if she is pretty (or very pretty), don't go praising her endlessly, she's heard it all. I would sometimes jokingly point out a flaw of a girl, like "hmm...so you're into <insert something weird> eh? I can't associate with you anymore."

If you're wondering about my success rate, let's just say I haven't been turned down yet (friend or stranger). I'm not a good looking guy either, just ask captaincrunch lol.