Beware the friend trap. Make sure you make your intentions clear EARLY to avoid this problem and it's associated awkwardness afterwards (if you still like her).
Some advice...
GIRLS LOVE TO BE ASKED QUESTIONS. Chat a girl up, listen to her life problems and stories, actually listen, and respond with appropriate questions that will keep her talking. Girls love it when guys listen, and the instant sign of success is if she asks you questions back, in an interested manner. You could be the most gawd-awful, gargoyle-looking Quasimodo, but as long as you can listen, girls will enjoy your company. Just don't say anything stupid, and you're in the zone.
This may take a couple of hours, but stick it out and you'll succeed....I'm 3 for 3 since 2001 when on a serious date!
It's not as hard as you might think...
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