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Originally Posted by D to the iddy
What if there isn't the casual talk yet? I'm in the semi-same boat where I see the girl a bit but still haven't talked to her... Any suggestions?
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Hmmm, that's probably even more difficult.
That's kind of what I brought up earlier with my reference to the gym. In my situation I have no problem during mid conversation to say, "hey wanna go out sometime," and then just continuing on with whatever is said.. However going up and talking to someone out of the blue, hmm..
I think just saying hi is the first best step.
See how they react, it's a good gauge on what they're like. If they respond or just brush it off, but make sure it's an actual hi, rather then some awkward, hi, that they might not hear, then you keep walking and think... dammit, I'm a knob..
Any other suggestions?
I think lines are kinda lame.. Normal conversation is probably your best best. You're not going to come up with something that will wow someone in one line, unless you're really really funny.. and then you have to hope that they get it or even have a sense of humor.