I'll echo what's been said, but support for the surviving party is huge. When my son passed away it was almost as if the cancer was all a dream and I had finally woken up to the harsh reality. And that reality hits you like a freight train.
The attitude from some others was like it was all over and done with though. Time doesn't heal all wounds, not by a long shot.
bc-chris, I remember reading your posts when you were pre-grieving and spending as much time with your dad as possible. As tragic and sad as it was, in a way that was a great thread. Makes me smile knowing your dad left knowing he had such a fantastic supportive family. I'm glad your mom is close enough to come by that often
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