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Originally Posted by 81MC
Pretty pathetic I suppose, but how do you all go about creating friendships in your adult years? Since I’ve moved to the City (almost a decade ago) the only friends I developed were through work, or the ex. So with a job change, those work buddys gradually started becoming more like fond memories. 10 years now, and (as bad as this sounds), I had two friends who live here...and ones my ex and the other is a bit of a particular situation.
I really like my own space and time, but sometimes I do miss having real adult relationships just for the fun of them.
So, how did you meet your ‘friends’, and do you actively seek out new people? Are you so busy you don’t have time for them, or do you wish you had more? Yada Yada Yada.
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it's hard. all my friends were ones I've had since my first job after high school. everyone else have just been acquaintances.
I think now, I'm down to 2 friends as life has moved on.
sometimes I wish I had more people to call up, but doing stuff usually takes time and money. I have precious little of each.
for you all I can suggest is the usual, join clubs and groups. church, if that's your thing. anywhere there might be people who are not drunk.