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Originally Posted by blankall
We weren't even all that long term of a client. Regardless of financial incentive, marriage counselors are generally of the view they want to make your marriage work. Realistically some things just aren't meant to work. People change. People get older. 25 year olds having fun at university parties aren't the same people as 35 year olds stressed out by real world problems.
Helping two people, that happen to be together, stay together, isn't always the right answer. Marriage counselling is fundamentally biased.
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To be frank blankall you just went to a really crappy counsellor, I cannot imagine any half competent counsellor suggesting that you work through anything but infidelity, the job of a counsellor is to help you work out what you want/need to be healthy and then help you try to and enact strategies to make that possible, in most cases what marriage counsellors do is facilitate a better break up, they know it and that is part of their job.