Well, I hope that the one thing folks get out of this is that communication is so key in a relationship. No matter how you do it in the end, be sure your partner is aware and onboard. Keep revisting it, since situations change as time goes on. Don't be afraid to revisit the entire system if it's not working, or to check and see if it could be working better.
TALK to your SO. So many of the problems I see come from people not talking, assuming their spouse knew or felt the same or could basically 'read their mind'.
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