Yeah, I have a mindset that probably isn’t popular on here, but it’s my job to be the provider for the family and it’s her job to prudently manage the day to day expenses. There is no ‘my money and her money’. It’s our money that I make for the family. She hasn’t worked since she was pregnant with my first kid and that’s pretty much how we expected it to go when we got married. It works for us, but I can see how it might not work for people that have some sense of independence even within the family unit.
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