Again I can’t help but wonder how it is people allow ####ty situations to continue to be a part of their life. The list of rules after “2 weeks” should have been enough to make anyone not stay in the relationship. Expecting you to ‘starfish’ when he gets home, and you eventually confess your love?
I really don’t mean to defend the guy, because he sounds like a POS (never heard his name before reading that article). The number one, most important thing someone can do is not stay in a relationship they aren’t enjoying, let alone one where you are treated like dirt. There is obviously some complex self-loathing and control issus at work, but if one continues to allow themselves to be controlled or manipulated or used, there is going to be someone who is willing to treat them as such.
Ugh, I can’t really verbalize what I mean. But ####, you know the guy for two weeks and he is already displaying really controlling traits you don’t like? How’s about not continuing to date him?
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