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#22 · 02-19-2018, 07:55 AM

I would say this is up to your wife to deal with. It's her family, so have her call them and ask them to please come over and clean / pick up their mess. If she has already done this with no results, then I would help her box everything up and bring it to their house.

After that, I would discuss with my wife calmly and supportively that perhaps we need to distance ourselves from these people as they obviously not healthy to be around for her. See them at the functions and that is it. They can go and live their lives, you live yours.

Lastly, don't hold a grudge. That **** causes cancer and it won't help your relationship with your wife. See it as an inexpensive lesson to learn what type of people you are dealing with. At least you didn't lend them $10,000 or something like that.

02-19-2018, 07:55 AM	#20
#22 Scoring Winger Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: In the prairies, surrounded by sheep Exp:	I would say this is up to your wife to deal with. It's her family, so have her call them and ask them to please come over and clean / pick up their mess. If she has already done this with no results, then I would help her box everything up and bring it to their house. After that, I would discuss with my wife calmly and supportively that perhaps we need to distance ourselves from these people as they obviously not healthy to be around for her. See them at the functions and that is it. They can go and live their lives, you live yours. Lastly, don't hold a grudge. That **** causes cancer and it won't help your relationship with your wife. See it as an inexpensive lesson to learn what type of people you are dealing with. At least you didn't lend them $10,000 or something like that.