I've been harassed and it sucked. But if someone on an elevator told me I was yummy, my own personal response would have been more than a bit on the blue side and I would have given that person a wide berth and the stinkeye ever after just because I would not want to deal with any more drama beyond that. And if it was Hehr, I realize this is going to sound awful and ableist or whatever, but it's frank and true - what exactly is he going to do to me beyond be a blooming bastard verbally? He would not make me feel "unsafe" muttering a few pipe dream phrases.
But that's *me.* I can't expect anyone else to feel or respond in the same manner I would. And, I have no use for Hehr, I don't like him, but if "you're yummy" is the ONLY thing he's said, well, whatever with his job but again, that isn't up to me. If it's far beyond that, then it should be looked into and dealt with.
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