is there really societal pressure to have kids. when my wife and I got married, I don't recall anyone asking us if/when we were going to have kids - but perhaps I was oblivious to it.
I waited until later in life to have kids (I was 35ish) and was more settled in my life and as a person. I was also in a relationship that was not as dramatic as my two prior major relationships.
I think the key is to make sure you are ready as a person.
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