Meh. Humans always pine for the grass on the other side of the fence. When they have kids and pine for the days they had freedom they don't remember the boring times or loneliness. When they have their freedom they are always looking to make their life more complete and have a family while glossing over the ensuing sacrifices. This debate is kind of boring to me because there's no right or wrong answer so not really a debate about which is right as it's a personal thing. One thing I am curious is that the reason we are all here today messaging on this forum is because our parents had us. There's no way I can ever look at my two boys and say if I could do it all over again they wouldn't exist. That's crazy talk.
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