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Originally Posted by MattyC
^^ I'm definitely feeling what's being mentioned in that article, not as a workplace thing, but just overall. I've talked to quite a few female friends about it. Trying to navigate the nuance has been messing with my head to the point that I'm way overthinking everything and it just becomes a deeper and deeper hold of self-doubt and second guessing.
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i think an easy way to stop 'over thinking' in those situations is to ask yourself this... would this be acceptable to do/say in front of xxxxx .... insert mom/dad/someone you hold in high regard.
for me it's "would i do or say this in front of my wife" and if i have to think about it at all then the answer is a resounding 'no - i shouldn't do/say this'