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Old 12-05-2017, 12:27 PM   #557
ernie
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Originally Posted by Boblobla View Post
I met my wife at work and I don't really understand why that is an issue.

EDIT: to clarify, I don't think asking a coworker out on a date should be considered sexual harassment should it? I am in no way advocating unwanted sexual advances or sending dick pics to coworkers...
But did you simply walk up to her and ask her out on a date out of nowhere after only having a professional relationship?

Or were there functions or after work get togethers where you got to know her and decided to ask?

The two scenarios are quite different. The former could easily be seen as being inappropriate (IMO it is) and the latter not really.

The first may not be harassment if it's a one time thing. It's different if it's the person that asks every woman on the floor out or repeatedly asks the same woman. A pattern, I think, matters a lot in such a case.
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