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Originally Posted by Reaper
Your former friend is attempting to hold you hostage using his cancer as the gun he points at you. Personally, I'd pass on my condolences on his diagnosis but I'm not sure I'd be willing to emotionally exhaust myself so a former friend could feel better about themselves over a crappy thing that they did.
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It's only a hostage situation if you choose to see it that way. Anger, grudes and such are wasted emtions that only hurt the person who has it. It doesn't hurt the person and your personal feelings won't have much effect on his dying.
A person could do the unselfish thing and help this person pass on. He may not thank you or even care but that's not what this is about. It's about doing what's right and the peace you will feel when it's all over.