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Originally Posted by Joborule
This is the problem I've been musing about while reading this thread, and what Matty has bought up.
Is basically indicating any interest in something you're attracted to off grounds? If you can't compliment physical attributes of someone you like and want to date, then how are you even gonna get to the point of having a sexual relation with them, that follows the rule you posted?
I'm all for being more respectful and considerate to women, and to take emphasis away from the important of looks; but we are human, and we are attracted to one another based on our sexual orientation. We have to be reasonable that physical compliments isn't the worst thing in the world, and must be avoided at all costs with strangers, friends, or love interests.
You don't want to push too far on the other end of the spectrum here.
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I think you have to accept the fact that being appropriate might mean you don't get to hit on via compliments every single woman you find attractive. But I also don't think that's going to lower your success rate either. Finding a genuine connection with someone for some reason over time is probably a better way to start than "Hey you're cute".