Thanks to everyone posting thus far. From my original post, I am interested if people want to share their experiences and offer advice - good or bad. We are a community here on CP made up of a large percentage of adult males.
Marriages are never perfect as a few people have illustrated. Our last three months were pretty normal - not many arguments or disagreements - back to going out on date nights or just hanging out lots together watching a movie or doing a sporting activity together. Unfortunately, she can get pretty upset and it can last for days and sometimes weeks. It certainly causes a lot of undue stress and unhappiness.
We've done the therapy thing over the years and it helps but at what point do you just say enough is enough. The financial aspect and decision is huge for a guy - I'd be left with 25% of my earnings most likely. That aspect certainly does not appeal. Money doesn't bring happiness but being broke for the next 10 years is not an option.
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