We don't really have any details. I guess I'm not sure how the last 3 months being excellent is completely derailed by one big fight. And it's not totally clear what y U mean by "going downhill for some time". Downhill because you argue once a quarter, or (presumably) other reasons?
I'd second the counselling/therapy suggestion. Joint sessions or alone, or both. It seems expensive but it's surely cheaper than a divorce. Or if therapy is just too much then maybe a relationship self-help book you could do together like "4 love languages" or similar? I don't really have any good ones to personally suggest but I'm sure there are dozens of options to choose from at Chapters or the library.
Good luck with it!!
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