[Northendzone]

I think you need to ask yourself would your life be better with your wife or without. if the answer is with and your wife answer is the same, then are you both willing to seek out help via a third party.

there have been times where I wanted to change my relationship, but I thought about eh above question and somehow my wife and I found a way to work things out or we got out of our relationship rut.

perhaps going on some type of week long tropical vacation could help re-ignite your relationship. but I get that with two kids that may not be feasible.