Haven't read the rest of the thread (just from the few posts on this page, seems pointless to do so).
Just wanted to say, hope you find the tattoo artist that can help you figure out exactly what you want, and that you're happy with the result. If you want it, who gives a flip what anyone else says - go for it, enjoy. As for shops, the only one I've been to is the Smilin' Buddha. Kids have been to Human Kanvas, and one other I can't recall - can find out later tonight and PM you the name if you want. Daughter is planning a tattoo with Brett Schwindt at Strange World Tattoo. A couple of her friends had tattoos done there as well, when they were here from the UK, with Kristin, I think.
(<---- married 27 years today 
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