[Sylvanfan]

Our second child was born 3 weeks early and due to a blood incompatability with my wife and jaundice she got transferered to a neonatal care unit. The stress of that plus the early birth made it tough for my wife to produce much milk early. So yeah all these people screaming breast feed, breast feed may not be helping.

With our first my wife got mastitus or whatever that blockage is. That looked as bad as child birth. She waited in emergency to see a surgeoon, and when he showed up said cut it open without any anisthetic it was that bad. Than stuffing the wound with gauze.....yikes. That was brutal. I will never blame anyone for going the formula route after seeing that.

I do wonder what I did with all my time before kids....and why I didnt sleep more!