Sorry to hear BC-Chris.
I am wondering if your son is too young, what if you had your dad buy/make him a gift for graduation (ie: Age 18)? Could be as simple as an engraved pocket knife, pen or or watch. Maybe a bottle(s) of special Scotch or Cognac to sip on for certain celebratory purposes (if appropriate)?
Maybe get a matching set of something with your dad? Watch, bracelet, necklace etc.
I second the video suggestion. I think I should have recorded my grandma telling childhood stories. Relatives used to complain she'd say them on repeat, but now that she's gone, the stories feels so distant and the air emptier. It's only been a few months since her passing and it seems like the memories are fading away.
The writing letter suggestion is a great idea. My dad also spent time to write a letter to the rest of his siblings and in laws after the whole resolution of the funeral etc.
Finally, don't let anyone continue forward with any regrets/upset. Resolve those immediately. Sometimes, they're the silliest things ever. Always remember, there's nothing that can't be let go. Money can be made later, pride can be restored... time and opportunity is finite.
I wish you and your family the best, again, BC-Chris.
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