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Originally Posted by calgaryblood
I just feel that we are still ashamed of having sex outside of relationships and that it isn't right being so ashamed of something that comes naturally to us.
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I think it's because "sex outside of a relationship" doesn't really exist, on an emotional level.
It's so very basic to just say "we're animals, we have needs and desires, everyone do what they want!" -- but that's not really how we operate. Lots of people want to think sex is just a good time, but it's a lot more than that to humans. There's a lot of things to go on physically and emotionally in our bodies and minds when we engage in it, that doing it with a random can often end up just feeling wrong. And I don't think that's cultural or religious or anything -- it's just how we're designed, to make it have more meaning than slamming our genitals into each other to make a baby.