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I was thinking about your post last night before going to sleep, and I agree that it seems most intuitively fair that, before some given time in the pregnancy when it is safe for the woman to have an abortion and the fetus is still not too far along, each party should have the right to withdraw their desire to raise the child. Of course, if the woman doesn't want the child then she would just have the abortion, but if the man doesn't want the child then the woman has the choice to continue but with sole responsibility for care of the child.
I suppose the state would also need to take on some extra burden in ensuring that the welfare of the child is adequate.
On a lighter note though, anyone using the drumfinator yet?
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