[CaptainCrunch]

i give full credit to any woman who are victims that are willing to step forward and basically get destroyed in the process in the courts.

unfortunately we have to be sure before we send some one away to prison for a long time that the story is actually valid and true.

Unfortunately it seems like the courts don't take into account the victims frame of mind after and during an assault and just are looking for the surface err facts.

To me there is little relevancy in the fact that a victim communicated by email months after the assault or sent a picture of herself in a bikini.

i do know that a lot of victims of date rate blame themselves for it happening and some of them act in the way above as a way of being sure.

One of the victims said that she was trying to entrap her assaulter.

its irrational actions caused by a extremely personal and frightening experience.

But there's no leeway in these proceedings for the victims.

I know after reading this why woman and male victims don't come forward, the process is absolutely painful and carried out without mercy.

To be honest at one time, when i was young I wanted to be a lawyer. I think i would have been a good one as well, but i tend to think after years of defending criminals that I know were guilty, that even though i am doing to job of providing a vigorous defense that I would put a gun in my mouth and pull the trigger.

It just seems to me that defending criminals would be soul devouring.