I'd play along with her as though what she is saying is making a lot of sense for you. Pretend to be on board. Then I'd make sure to be at the first doctor appointment with the baby and ask the doctor's thoughts on not vaccinating. Let the doctor be the 'bad guy'. Then I'd push for vaccinating the kid citing the doctor as the reason.
This accomplishes a couple of things. It shows you care about what she cares about. It illustrates to her you're just after the best information. Hopefully she can see your mind changing in the doctor's office, and it prompts a change in her, too.
If that fails I'd vaccinate the kid anyway behind her back and let the chips fall where they may. I'd never let stupidity run anything in my house.
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