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Originally Posted by dobbles
he has defended himself to me. i don't necessarily want to post what we talked about, but as an example, he mentions the xbox picture you guys talked about and notes that he has had the xbox for 2 years so its not a new purchase and also mentions that the ring for his fiance is only a cheap ring from macys not an expensive diamond or anything.
and while in both cases, they aren't bulletproof explanations (i.e. he could have pawned xbox when times were tough) that would at least help minimize the gross negligence that many feel has occurred.
overall though, while i am happy to post his remarks on his behalf, i am not going to try and defend him based on what i know as a 3rd party. thats just a losing proposition for me!  |
Fair enough.
Like I said above, some explanations (like an old xbox) may well hold water, but my understanding was that he left his cheating girlfriend, not that he got engaged on the cheap. Those stories are clearly incompatible. Unless he proposed to this gal very shortly after they met.
But perhaps I misunderstood something.