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Originally Posted by Igster
Why though? People wanting you to be involved with them at Xmas and inviting you to dinner seems like something most people would like. Why choose not to participate and turn down dinner invites? There are a lot of people quite frankly who would love to receive these invites and gifts from people thinking about them at this time of year.
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I get that most people would like it, but sometimes I have other plans and sometimes I just don't want to go because I'm kind of one of those people who likes being by himself much of the time. Either way, it should be my choice whether I want to be included or not. I'm also not a fan of big dinners with a bunch of people I don't know or don't have anything in common with. It's not that I don't appreciate the gesture, I just don't want to go. It'd be like if someone offered me NBA tickets. It's a great gesture and lots of people would love to go to an NBA game, but it's not something I have any interest in.