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Originally Posted by CliffFletcher
You need to give us some idea why this guy is even your friend. Because personally, I wouldn't feel especially cautious about hurting the feelings of a guy who cheated on his wife, rarely sees his kids, and is still possesive of her. He'd be my ex-friend already.
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Also, if he truly is a terrible person, think about the difficulty that he could create and how hard it would be for the children. If he is possessive, vindictive and small, he may be even worse to the both of you because you "stabbed him in the back" and made it "personal" in his mind. I'm not saying it's right, but the fight it would create would be extra-daunting. Court dates, lawyer visits, crying, sobbing, child drop-off arguments, affidavits, lies, and all around misery. Then if it becomes too much for the two of you and you break up, she is left with it all by herself.
How old are the kids?