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Originally Posted by Muta
Recently single again after four years, and when I get back into the scene I'm not gonna use dating sites. I'm gonna just do the old fashioned way and go talk to women in person. That's how my last two relationships started. There's the chance you will get rejected, but as long as you're okay with that and laugh about it, it makes the process that much easier.
Plus, other dudes in this city make my job easier. There's LOTS of delta bravos out there, and women don't want them, so all you have to do is avoid being one and you've passed the first level in record speed.
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For every type of DB guy, there's a corresponding DB woman. The reason guys do 'roids, wear Ed Hardy, etc...is because there are many women who actually go for that. They get fake tans, take duck selfies, get implants, etc.. Knowing your proper target is a good way to self-filter though.
If I was single again, I'd be all over the internet. Yes meeting people in person is great, but why limit yourself from a solid opportunity? Why not do both? Also, my single friends who drag insist on not doing the internet thing, always drag me along as a wing man (not that I mind it occasionally). They end up going to bars specifically to meet women (either consciously or subconsciously) and sniffing around a B-level talent consumes their night. These are always the guys that say they are just "going out to have fun". Sorry, there's no way to overcome that biological drive.
My advice, use all the tools at your disposal. Maximize your odds. Honestly, if you're a guy in your mid-30s with a job, you should be able to meet someone solid in a few months. If you haven't, then you've got a fundamental flaw you need to deal with and any kind of strategy you use is going to be wasted.