[Bring_Back_Shantz]

I'm a non married, but not single guy in my 30's so I think I can chime in on this with a few observations:

1) The city you live in is always harder to meet girls than somewhere else you go. Generally when you visit another city you are more outgoing than at home, so everyone seems nicer. Everyone says the girls in the last place they visited are nicer and better looking...oh and the beer was better

2) The guys saying that Calgary has more dudes or is a sausage fest (EE, Tyler) you are flat out wrong. For the last census data I could find, there are actualy marginally more women than men in Calgary. (Edit: Fuzz already covered this)

As for the OP, seriously, how many of your friends met their partners at a bar? Probably not many, and if they did, they probalby weren't in their 30's.

Get on a dating site man. It seems odd at first, and might be a bit embarassing, but it's a great way to get out and meet chicks, and trust me, if you have any single friends, they are probalby doing it too.

I've met some great girls (Including a girl I dated for over a year and a half), and some duds, but that's the way it goes.

Sure, keep up with activities you like, you might meet someone cool (Ironically, I'm telling you to get on a dating site, but I met my GF through friends), but in the meantime play the numbers game. At the very least, you'll get out on a bunch of first dates and maybe find some new places to hang out.