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Sainters7 · 09-21-2015, 08:27 AM

If you're doing a (out of country) destination wedding and you're still expecting everyone to come, and will be insulted if they don't, then yes you're right, that's incredibly selfish.

That isn't always the case though. Some people just don't like all the pomp, ceremony, and size of your average "local" wedding, and want a small group. If you've got the mentality of "we're going here, if you can make it that's great, if you can't I understand", I don't see the issue.

09-21-2015, 08:27 AM	#54
Sainters7 Franchise Player Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: back in the 403 Exp:	If you're doing a (out of country) destination wedding and you're still expecting everyone to come, and will be insulted if they don't, then yes you're right, that's incredibly selfish. That isn't always the case though. Some people just don't like all the pomp, ceremony, and size of your average "local" wedding, and want a small group. If you've got the mentality of "we're going here, if you can make it that's great, if you can't I understand", I don't see the issue. Last edited by Sainters7; 09-21-2015 at 08:30 AM.