We got married in Maui. My inlaws were already going to be there, and we had already booked the trip. We were trying to decide on what to do here. My family can be difficult, and it was proving stressful, so we decided, we're getting married in Maui. My wifes parents will be there, and that's all we need. Word got out, and we just told people, no worries, it's pricey, you don't have to come, we know people can't afford to go, this is what works best for us. It ended up that a bunch of friends asked if they could come, and we ended up having an awesome time.
I think if you do it, you have to understand that people can't be there, and respect that.
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