I think people have covered both sides pretty well. Some people love them, some hate them. I think you just have to decide how important it is for people to be there. If there are really important people you want there - consider if they can afford it, and depending on your relationship with them, consider asking them first.
The biggest positive, IMO, is the lack of planning. You don't have to do almost anything.
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When I got married we considered a destination wedding - but we talked to our family and a few close friends who said they wouldn't be able to come because of the cost. So we decided their presence was worth more than the location of our wedding and didn't go. However, always remember it's your wedding - not your friend's - so do what you want. Good friends shouldn't get upset if you have a destination wedding and they can't come. The day is about you, not them. But equally, don't expect a lot of people to come if you do have one. A lot of my clients have their destination wedding somewhere and then throw a big party when they get back for those who could not make it.
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