[Cowperson]

I notice in your original post you didn't ask for advice then said you were "trapped" with no way out, cornered like a rat.

I assume you are posting therefore to lift some of the stress as part of an early confessional to ourselves.

I would agree with the other poster who suggested that if it was something that would hurt them and they didn't need to know then you should think carefully about telling them.

But . . . . that doesn't sound like the situation.

So, you're going to be in the doghouse tomorrow and that's all there is to it.

Take the cowards way out - phone them instead so they can't start swinging!!

Cowperson