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Originally Posted by MattyC
Yeah I really have no problem giving her the whole spiel up front and I don't think it would bother her at all quite frankly. In fact, I think she'd welcome the casual nature of the whole thing, even though the setting of one of my best friends' wedding isn't exactly casual.
Dating her or getting lucky really isn't a concern for me at all, like I said, just nice to have a person cool to chill with, an automatic dance partner, etc...
Really I'm mostly concerned with filling the seat because my buddy paid for it and as a good friend of his I was given the privilege of a +1 invite, and I want to show respect for that.
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Hmm, I think you're setting yourself up for some potential no-win situations.
Like trout said, if you think you might want an actual relationship with this person, you're better off waiting and letting that develop more naturally, especially once you've shed the skin of the previous relationship.
Also, if you DO want a relationship with this person, inviting them to a wedding is skipping some potentially necessary dating stages, stages that you might not want to skip if the overall health of the relationship is something you're interested in preserving.
I dunno, man, Weddings have lots of implications surrounding them.